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I’ve had a pretty big awakening recently. I went to Warrior Week and got my world rocked. It was the hardest, most challenging thing I’ve ever done but also the most rewarding.
I saw my life in a whole new way and found depths in myself that I didn’t know existed.
One of the biggest things I realized is that I’ve never really stood up and fought for anything, ever. I let people run over me constantly and then justify it by claiming that I’m “taking the high road” or some crap like that.
I’ve let business partners run over me. I’ve let customers run over me. I’ve let friends and relatives do the same. I always justified it by “being the nice guy” or some pussified nonsense like that.
As men, we used to have a right of passage. You became a “man” by going on the first hunt or going to a battle of some sort. These days we have nothing like that. At best we go to college and get a degree and then our earning power is the right of passage.
It’s turned our nation and lots of the world into a giant pool of weak-kneed panzies. If your earning power is strong enough you get to indulge in a “mid-life crisis” once you get over 40 and realize all the crap we’ve been led to believe is just that, crap.
That means 40+ years of going down the wrong path and wasting a shitload of your life. All because you were never taught to be a man. Even worse, unwinding all that programming is damn near impossible without some massive amount of getting your ass kicked.
We are taught to believe that being a man and fighting the righteous fight is somehow wrong and that you should be nice. If you do stand up and state your truth then you are called rude or mean or an asshole. Its because our modern world has pushed every man’s inner warrior down into a tiny small space and is told to keep him quiet.
Well FUCK THAT. That’s about a 100 ton load of HORSESHIT.
Because of this we have bullshit wars, fucked up financial systems, corrupt politicians and so many laws is disgusting. Even the simple act of spitting is against the law. It’s gotten way out of fucking control and it’s time for the warriors inside of all men to fucking rise up and stop being hidden.
I did this video a couple days ago as an update for my company and it’s rocked my team and my customer base. Most are fired up and see the truth and power in it. Some got scared shitless and thought I was being mean to them and thought I should be turned into the FTC.
Here’s the video:
It’s amazing what happens when you step into your power and REALLY awaken the warrior inside you. You immediately will trigger other’s fears and insecurities. The weakest see that as a threat and try to hide behind whatever bullshit mechanism than can find, like the FTC. Man I’d LOVE to see the FTC staff watching that video! Haha!
So here’s the message; Stand the fuck up and stopping being a bunch of damned wimps. Standing up for yourself is not wrong, or mean nor does it make you an asshole. It means you are a man.
And don’t get me wrong. I’ve been fight training in Muay Thai kickboxing since 2008 so I damn well know how to fight. I’ve been in enough bar fights to know I can handle myself pretty well. That’s NOT what I’m talking about.
I’m talking about fighting for:
Body: Fight for your fucking health because you get one shot and that’s it. Health is key. I’ve fucked this up for 45 years.
Being: Fight for your spiritual being because being grounded in that brings peace and calm. Being a warrior doesn’t mean being at war all the time. It means being true to who you are and standing up for that. Being grounded spiritual balances all that out. It’s a MUST.
Balance: How’s your home life? Your relationship with your spouse? Your kids? Your legacy? That’s WAY important to fight for. Most strong businessmen have disastrous home lives because they don’t fight for it. Stop being a wimp and treat your spouse like a queen and your life will change.
Business: This is where I’ve been both a warrior and a wimp at that same time. You have to fight for your business. You should treat it as war, not a hobby.
It’s a VERY rare man that really has all four of those areas dialed in and STRONG. Well you just met one, me. And I’m not taking any shit any longer. I’m standing in my power and owning it.
One of the symptoms of not standing in your power is self-deprecating humor. We have been programmed to make fun of ourselves and to call ourselves by really dis-empowering names to get a laugh. But that shit doesn’t serve you or me or anyone else. Yeah it’s funny but it’s also a silent tool to neuter yourself.
That’s because your unconscious mind believes and acts on every message fed to it, especially those messages coming from YOU. So you can laugh all you want but that self-deprecating humor is turning you into a woman, and a weak one at that. Women, your self-talk matters too so don’t think you are off the hook.
I’ve been the worst at this for YEARS. Just look at the name of my main blog, The Marketing Moron. I thought it was cute and funny and I thought making fun of myself would endear the marketplace to me.
What a bunch of weak-assed shit!
I’m not a fucking moron, far from it. I’m a smart mother fucker and I know marketing better than an extremely large majority of the world. So I’m stepping into that power and OWNING IT!
So from now on, this site is basically dead. I’m killing it and sending it to pansy hell. I’ll keep it here for SEO purposes but that’s it. So this is my last post on this site.
From now on, my blog will be located at MattTrainer.com because that’s who the fuck I am.
I hope you join me on my journey to escape pansy land.
That’s it for now. Get your ENTIRE life in check or you will lose it.
2014 is going to suck royal ass for you.
Yep you read that right. It’s gonna be a disaster.
Why do I say that? Here’s why:
You don’t have it.
You don’t have that DNA.
You’ve never hustled.
You didn’t grow up with the right opportunities.
You think growing up with opportunities matters.
You don’t know how to take currently available opportunities.
You complain a lot.
You don’t see the big picture.
You might have a map, but you’re really bad with directions.
You expect handholding. “Oh if only someone would show me how…”
You think you’re entitled to rewards.
You place blame on others instead of taking control and figuring out what went wrong.
You half ass projects and say they’re failures.
You rarely, if at all, launch projects in the first place.
You don’t seek specified knowledge.
You buy a lot of information – courses, webinars, seminars, conferences – and let it all go in one ear and out the other.
You haven’t learned the very basics of doing work online.
You think “I’m not a techie” is a good excuse.
You haven’t learned the slightest bit about how a real business works.
You don’t enjoy producing content.
You’ve never studied classic marketing or sales literature.
You’ve never written an advertisement.
You’ve never made a sales call yet you expect to make thousands of dollars in sales overnight.
You waste a lot of time on things that don’t matter and then whine that you don’t have enough time to do the things that do.
You spend your free time thinking about doing something.
You tell anyone who will listen what you’re going to do.
You never do anything.
If you hate me now, it’s because some of that was true (or maybe all of it).
So why not change it and make 2014 (and every year after that) great?
I can help if you listen to me. Start here.
Or just stay tuned to my increasingly insightful emails. 🙂
Matt “2014 And Beyond” Trainer
P.S. Yes I ripped this off from a post I did a couple years ago. You can read it here.
P.P.S. And yes, part of that post was ripped off from Karol Gajda.
(He gave permission so stop whining.) He’s brilliant so won’t hurt to follow him here.
Only 3% of people ever actually use the training and prosper.
It’s because most Internet marketing product sellers don’t know how to structure training properly. And sadly, most don’t REALLY care about their customers. Peter and Andrew are the 1% exception to that.
And in just a couple hours they are going to be teaching LIVE how they have generated over $10 million via facebook and clickbank in over 100 niches.
They will be teaching how to do $100k a day like Peter does.
We get started in just two hours. Be there.
Training Date: TODAY, December 19th, 2013
Training Time: 5 PM EST
Yes of course there will be a product promoted at the end.
But don’t let that stop you from getting some awesome training from these guys.
I’ve seen what they have and it’s incredible.
It SHOULD be the standard for all Internet marketing training.
It’s THAT good.
See you on the training.
P.S. Today I’ve got NOTHING for you people that always scroll to the P.S. Just stop it and read the damn post! 🙂
Yesterday I sent an email about my friend Peter Parks who’s cranking out $100k/day on facebook.
A lot of people were excited by the numbers and by the fact that its not any blackhat BS. But a couple people
responded with the craziest scarcity mindset I’ve ever heard.
One guy wrote and said:
“Yeah right, if Peter were really making that much there’s
no way he would share it with the world! Why would you
when you can keep it quiet and keep all the money to yourself?”
It made me really stop and think how pervasive the scarcity mindset it.
In fact, it pissed me off.
Our world is so focused on LACK instead of ABUNDANCE.
It should be a crime and it should piss EVERYONE off.
Peter is one of the nicest and most humble people I know. Yes he does well but he TRULY LOVES helping others
Abundance means there’s an unlimited supply so why not share it with the world. Help as many people as possible because it’s awesome and makes you feel great to give back and share.
Scarcity means that you have to horde all you can. There’s not enough to go around! So f*@k everyone else, I’m getting mine and I’m not sharing SH!T! Oh and screwing over as many people as possible to get there helps too because “We can’t ALL be rich right?”
I REALLY hate the scarcity mindset. It’s such a downer to hear people rant when they are in full scarcity mode.
There truly is an unlimited supply of wealth and there’s no reason NOT to share and help others.
So join us this Thursday at 5 PM EST and learn exactly how to do $100,000 per day on facebook.
Keep your mind focused on abundance.
It’s a much bigger and better world than you can imagine.
See ya tomorrow,
Matt “Abundance Like A Mofo” Trainer
That’s not a typo – $100,000 per day!
This is some gangster stuff and NOT black hat or anything scary like that.
I’ve arranged a live training you get to see the system he uses.
Who the hell would not want to see this?
And also on the call is a product launch specialist who has over $10 mill under his belt and is aiming to build a company
to $100 mill plus.
These guys don’t mess around…
Click here to sign up for the training right now and see PROOF of these numbers
Thursday 19th December at 5PM EST
This is one event you definitely don’t want to miss – it will go down in the history books
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So I’m officially scared shitless. (Is that a real word?)
Today is the day I leave for the 10-day retreat I told you about here. It’s crazy because I tend to be a pretty fearless mofo.
But facing yourself is scary as hell. I know three people that have been to this retreat. Every single one of them came back a different person.
So this is my farewell to you.
So, it’s been nice knowing you. My old self is outta here.
There’s a chance the new me might never come back to this.
If so, then this is goodbye.
If not, then I’ll let you know how it all went.
Talk soon (or maybe not),
Matt “Leavin’ On A Jet Plane” Trainer
P.S. We’ve had some tech glitches with the postcard training calls.
But they’ve all been fixed and it’s kicking ass again.